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Rihanna: Ditch him. Now.

by Jul on February 11, 2009 · 2 comments

Rihanna and Chris Brown hours before the alleged attack via Daily Mail

The Daily Mail (and every other rag) is reporting more details of the alleged attack on Rihanna by Chris Brown, her boyfriend. Reports are that she has multiple injuries, including bite marks and alleged injuries to the face. This picture was taken only hours before the alleged attack.

Look…I’m all for biting…if it happens in the context of a relationship where this behavior is wanted and nonmalicious. Especially if both parties are naked, things are getting a little rough, …well, you get my drift. But, to get bitten and hit by your girlfriend in a fight? Unacceptable. Rihanna, you’re better than this.

Actually, no matter who you are…you are better than domestic violence. Often we don’t talk about it in the lesbian community – but it’s flourishing. Everyday women are hit, bitten and beaten in the name of love…and it’s not only the heteros.

So, my point? If you’re out there and getting hit or bitten, ditch them. And for Rihanna? If you need some company under that Umbrella…you know where to reach me.

{ 2 comments… read them below or add one }

Rhea February 11, 2009 at 6:33 am

“But, to get bitten and hit by your girlfriend in a fight?”

I think that you meant to say ‘boyfriend’…unless Rihanna fought back.

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Jul February 11, 2009 at 2:14 pm

I meant to say girlfriend, actually…I was kind of saying “you” like my audience…who mostly, don’t date guys…that they shouldn’t accept that type of behavior…and rihanna shouldn’t either.

perhaps I was a tad unclear…but in my head, it was perfect!

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